Being a Claircognizant Empath/Psychic means I just know things. The really hard part for me is answering the questions that follow. Why? How? When? Where? I try to find as much information as I can, but sometimes it just doesn’t come through.

My number one rule is: Write everything down! Even if the information seems like it doesn’t connect, write it down anyway. Take notes on everything. If you use a voice recorder, describe what you’re seeing and feeling but say it exactly the way you feel it; note that it feels conflicted. Even if it seems to make no sense now, it always makes sense later.

Visions/feelings are not an exact science. You don’t get an HD, mega-pixel, beautifully detailed picture to study for as long as you like. It is a flash of a memory, a scent, a color, a feeling…it just hits and in a moment it’s gone. You have to record as much detail as you can before it slips your mind.

I have been keeping detailed journals for as long as I can remember. I still go through them on occasion just to see if anything connects. I make hindsight notes in order to keep up with any facts or info that may apply now.

After so many years of having this ability, I still may question the messages I receive, just not the validity. I question how it will play out later, but overall I generally just roll with it. I make a note, no matter how outlandish it may seem. I have also come to find that the messages I question the most, almost always end up being the most important and influential in a reading. It seems to always pop back up later on. Someone will say, “Hey! Remember when you told me____? … Well, I’ll be darned, but it just happened!” It may take 6 months, it may take 6 years, but it always comes through.

I have moments where something will trigger a memory. I rush home, rummage through my journals, and sure enough it is right there. I had noted it. It happens so regularly for me that I have an instant understanding. It may sound farfetched and out of the blue, but it will come into play along the line. It always does.

Believe me, if the universe tells me that your child will be born in two places at once, trust me. Fast forward to you parked on the side of the road having an emergency delivery on a state line. Two places at once, you guys!

So, how do I handle conflicting info? I just roll with it. I don’t make this stuff up and I don’t have all the answers. It is what it is.

Sometimes the hardest thing people have with psychic readings is the lack of control it gives. A lot of people come into a reading thinking it will clear things up or give answers to all their questions. Most of the time, it will just pose more questions. Thinking outside of the box is very helpful when taking in the information because it will bend and shift with time. Decisions and choices will change the course of life and you may have altered what will happen just by making a different decision. My theory is that set events in your life will find a way of happening. Decisions you make may postpone it, but those major points in time tend to find a way of making themselves happen. In the same realm of thought, if a situation isn’t meant to be, forcing it into existence will only complicate your life and cause more issues.

Be mindful, if you go to a reading and you don’t hear what you want to hear, please take that to heart. The plans you make for yourself don’t always turn out the way you imagine. That is where faith comes in, have faith that when things do happen they were simply meant to be that way. We just have to find the lesson in it and move on.

Go with light and love.